How to get over mental blocks in cheerleading

Overcoming Mental Blocks: A Practical Guide

A mental block is every athlete’s worst nightmare, and as a coach, it’s tough to watch.

Fear and pressure are major components of a mental block, with that inner voice constantly whispering: “Why are you here? You’re going to hurt yourself. You’re wasting your time. You can’t do this.”

But that voice is not true.

This article will give you tools to confront that fear, reframe your mindset, and overcome mental blocks.

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Step 1: Stop Avoiding the Situation

When something scares you, it’s natural to avoid it. You might find comfort in doing familiar, unchallenging tasks, thinking, “Maybe I’ll deal with it later.”

In the short term, this feels better, but long-term avoidance teaches your brain that you can’t cope. This erodes confidence and reinforces the cycle of avoidance, making the situation scarier.

Quote to Consider:
“It’s easy to live with excuses and justifications about why you can’t do what you want—at least not now. But inaction exacts an increasingly steep toll on our lives.”
— Tony Robbins


Step 2: Take Action

To overcome a mental block, you must believe deep down that you can do it. This belief is crucial. Feel the fear, but keep pushing forward. Action, not avoidance, is what breaks the cycle. This step is foundational.

Focus on What You’ll Gain:
When facing a mental block, keep your eye on the benefits of pushing through:

  • More self-belief
  • Increased confidence
  • A sense of empowerment
  • Inner peace
  • Joy and fulfillment

Overcoming hardships makes you stronger. Early on, challenges seem impossible, but when you push through, you build resilience and a belief that you can handle anything. Visualize your success repeatedly, making it your focus during tough moments.


Step 3: Practice Positive Self-Talk

Be mindful of how you talk to yourself. The mind tends to believe whatever you tell it, whether good or bad.

Constantly saying, “I can’t do it,” sets you up for failure before you even begin.

Expert Insight:
“Excessive self-criticism tends to backfire because it leads you to focus on your so-called failures instead of the small ways that we could have improved. Over the long term, self-trash-talk is associated with higher stress levels and even depression.”
— Tamar E. Chansky, PhD

Reframe Your Thinking:
Instead of labeling it as a “mental block,” which carries negative connotations, try saying, “I’m working on a skill.” This subtle shift reminds you that you’re engaging in something achievable, not battling something insurmountable.


Step 4: Visualise Support

When you’re part of a team and see a teammate struggling, you encourage them until they succeed. Apply that same encouragement to yourself. When negative thoughts arise (and they will), think of someone you trust or someone like and imagine what they would say: “You got this,” “I believe in you,” “Keep pushing,” “You can do this.”

Use this tool whenever you’re caught in a cycle of negative self-talk. Constantly remind yourself: “I can handle this. I’ve overcome challenges before, and I’ll do it again.”


Step 5: Set Realistic Expectations and Gradually Confront Your Fears

Expert Strategy:
“The way to confront situations that you have avoided is to start with those that make you the least anxious and work up to the ones that make you more anxious.”
— Cambridge University Health Partners

Create a list, ranking situations from least to most anxiety-inducing. Start with the least stressful task and repeat it until you feel comfortable, then gradually work your way up. Remember, progress might be slow, but it’s still progress.

It’s crucial to experience the anxiety long enough for it to subside. This signals to your brain that you are safe, training it not to trigger anxiety in those situations. If a task feels overwhelming, step back, and tackle something more manageable.


Step 6: Develop Coping Strategies

When anxiety hits, having coping mechanisms is key. One effective method is grounding—a distraction technique that reduces self-focus and anxiety.

Try this grounding exercise:

  1. What can you see?
  2. What can you hear?
  3. What can you smell?
  4. Who is around you?

Distraction techniques break the cycle of panic by shifting focus. Use this method for at least 3-4 minutes to calm your mind and regain control.


Final Thoughts: Keep Moving Forward and Celebrate Progress

Overcoming mental blocks takes time and commitment, so expect setbacks. Don’t be disheartened—every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how minor they seem. Bravery and resilience grow stronger every day you face your fears. As you work through your challenges, you’re not just conquering a single block—you’re building mental toughness that will help you in all areas of your life.

Community Input:
If you have techniques that have helped you overcome mental blocks, share them below to support others in the journey.


Call to Action: Start Today

Choose one technique from this article and apply it today. Whether it’s positive self-talk, visualisation, or gradual exposure, taking that first step is crucial. Commit to pushing through, and remember: You’re stronger than you think.


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Founder and CEO Caroline is a cheerleading expert, social media and website consultant and owner of the number one UK cheerleading resource, Cheer From Head To Toe (CFHHT). With, 18-plus years of experience in the cheerleading industry, As a previous athlete and coach, I knew the solution to these pain points so created digital resources to educate the cheer community on all things UK cheerleading. Caroline is aware of the pain points coaches and athletes are experiencing. These problems decrease their motivation, leaving them feeling stuck. The UK cheer community is eager to learn but doesn’t know how or where to start CFHTT was created to rectify this. CFHTT is a trusted resource that has developed a loyal following.

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